We are joined by authors Noni and Dave Yates who generously share their story, Beyond Betrayal - 28 years of lies, deceit and infidelity. Noni is a trauma informed counsellor who is also trained in helping couples through a process of full disclosure after sexual betrayal. In this episode we hear of unhelpful advice given to them in their early years of marriage after the discovery of the first affair. Dave explains what was going on deep inside of him that lead to infidelity. Noni challenges the blame that is often placed on, or felt by, the betrayed partner. 

NOTES: EPISODE 26
https://beyondbetrayalrecoverybook.com/
Our Disclosure Experience   https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCUz48NaLL1zM2UsBlXk1ZvQ
Recovery Resources For Everyone   https://beyondbetrayalrecoverybook.com/2022/10/19/recovery-resources-for-everyone/
affairrecoverycounselling@gmail.com
How To Tell Her About The Porn: Full Disclosure (with Dan Drake and Dr Janice Caudill)
Full Disclosure: How to Share the Truth After Sexual Betrayal Dan Drake & Dr Janice Caudill (2019)
Full Disclose: Seeking Truth After Sexual Betrayal Volumes 1,2 & 3 Dan Drake & Janice Caudill (2020, 2021 & 2022)
http://www.move-beyond-the-affair.com/ (infidelity specific counselling)
https://beyondaffairsnetwork.com/ support group
Dr Omar Minwalla - https://minwallamodel.com/
Going Deeper: How the Inner Child Impacts Your Sexual Addiction Eddie Capparucci (2020)
Lights On Podcast Carl & Laura Lentz
Is Betrayal Trauma Real? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fb6LPNd4OpI
The Body Keeps The Score Bessel Van Der Kolk (2015)